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In the extremely under-researched world of kinky anal actsanal gaping is the most well-knownand yet the least understood. So in an effort to bring peace, loveand anal gaping to the masses, I will try to expand on this.
This feat of rectal legerdemain i. That feeling, however, must also be accompanied by sexual arousal, extended foreplayorgasms aplentyand extreme relaxation. While researching anal gapingthe first thing I really wanted to know was why people desire a gape instead of a closed, tight sphincter.
I found quite a few answers, but the underlying reasoning stems from four main things:. Simply put, you can make a man feel mighty by feeding his ego. One way to achieve this feeling of greatness is by gazing down at a gaping rectum after pounding it for a while and seeing the sphincter wide open. Of course, this is based on my personal observations and on what is commonly found in mainstream porn. If ease of anal insertion is your reason, the gaping anus can easily fit a variety of large objects without fear of tearing, bleeding, or even causing anal discomfort. One can insert bottles, fists, large sex toysor even massive cocks without fear of pain.
One of the more common answers I received from those who engage in this act was that they simply like pleasing their partner. It is an easy loving decision for them. Easy peasy anal no squeezy! Of course when gaping is a part of their play it is negotiated, consensual, and carefully planned by both parties. Ken: Hi Casey, thanks for making time to talk with me today.
How do you prepare for it? Casey: Thanks for calling! Also I have to be horny to do it. Is this an act of submission for you?
Relaxation and being sexually excited are both especially important during this very vulnerable act. I really have to open up, both physically and emotionally. I do this more with people I work with in the adult industry, rather than something I do in my personal BDSM and romantic relationships.
Ken: Have you had any medical issues, like prolapses or fissureseither during or just after gaping? I heard from some other girls that they have had minor issues, like minor tearing or bleeding, but nothing that was out of the norm for any anal scene. Casey : Be turned on, have a clitoral orgasm or two if you can, relax and use lots of lube! Empty your colon and perform an enema. Get on your hands and knees, or whichever position is most comfortable and lube up your rectum!
Start by putting on or having your partner put on a disposable glove, lube your finger, then grease the anus. Slowly insert a finger in the rectum. Start by making small circles with the finger and gradually make the circles larger and larger. Now that the sphincter is relaxing a little, graduate to a slightly larger anal toy like a small butt plug.
Play with it in the same manner you did with the finger — small circles that get progressively larger. Important safety tip: only use anal toys with a flared base you can retrieve if they go deeper than intended. Remember, without a base, without a trace!
Have lots of backdoor action! Remember, slow and steady anal sex increases, stretches, and prepares the inner sphincter to expand. Your outer sphincter is a voluntary muscle, your inner sphincter is an involuntary muscle. That means use lube, relax, be patient — and get horny.
When this happens, the inner sphincter opens up. This area is also the home of the pudendal nerve, which is the primary catalyst for both G-spot and prostate orgasms.
Having an orgasm prior to anal gaping engorges the erectile tissue in either the G-spot or the prostate, and gets the sphincter ready to blossom like a flower. This article was originally published at SunnyMegatron.
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